Thomas Byron Carr, known to friends and family as “Tom”, aged 65, passed away on July 18, 2024, in Jacksonville, Florida. Born on December 11, 1958, in the same city, Thomas led a fulfilling life characterized by dedication to his family and his career.
Tom graduated from Baldwin High School, Class of 1976 and spent an impressive 41 years working at a local sawmill where he began his journey in the lumber industry in the scale house and concluded his career as the purchasing manager. His commitment to his work was parallelled only by his devotion to his family and his passions.
A loving husband to his wife of 47 years, Patricia G. Carr, and a cherished father to Dana M. Carr, Thomas R. Carr, Jonathan D. (Renee) Carr, and Jacob B. (Kristina) Carr. He was also a grandfather to 17 grandchildren and 2 great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his brothers, James L. (Nettie) Carr, Timothy H. (Theresa) Carr, and Michael F. (Cheryl) Carr. Tom was preceded in death by his parents, Lewis T. (Buddy) Carr and Betty L. Carr, and his brother, Ronald L. Carr.
Thomas was preceded in death by his father, Lewis (Buddy) Carr, his mother, Betty Carr, and his brother, Ronald Carr. His life was a testament to the values of honesty and humor he upheld in every interaction.
An avid outdoorsman, Thomas enjoyed hunting and fishing, which allowed him to immerse himself in nature, or as he called it, “His church”, a place he loved dearly. He enjoyed Nascar, drag racing, beer, bonfires, camping and just being on the river.
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Sherry Thompson
July 22, 2024, 10:51 am
Patty I’m so sorry to hear about Tommy. Praying for peace and comfort for you and the family! Call me anytime you need someone to talk to.
Nettie Carr
July 22, 2024, 10:55 am
Tom will be missed. He had a green thumb and loved his plants. He also was a great storyteller. Enjoyed listening to him tell about his brothers and his adventures. May your memories give you hope, comfort and peace. Love all so much.
Neuman Thelma
July 22, 2024, 11:01 am
My sincere sympathy to the Carr family. Sending Love an prayers to the whole family for peace an comfort. Love this family.
Tracy Sharpe
July 22, 2024, 11:03 am
I’m so sorry for your loss. I pray you all find peace an comfort.
Donna Everett Hostutler
July 22, 2024, 11:09 am
To my dear Carr family and friends, I’m sending prayers of comfort in this sad time. Tommy was so sweet and as a very little girl I loved all of the Carr boys who entertained me while Aunt Betty babysat me. I inherited Tommy’s stuffed tiger that I still have and have fond memories of Ronnie, Jimmy, Timmy, Tommy and Mikey, the fun loving adopted brothers I had as a youngster! I love you all and miss you! My sincere condolences to his wife, children, grandchildren and greats! Treasure all of your sweet memories! They will bring smiles when you need them!
Bradie Douglas
July 22, 2024, 11:17 am
I have know Tom for over 25 years. We were workers for Champion and IP. Definitely a man of integrity and character. Loves his family! RIP my friend.
Denise Long
July 22, 2024, 12:32 pm
Tom , may you rest in peace! I will always cherish all our childhood memories we made as children. Thank you for always looking out for me. I love you always brother. Condolences with prayers for your comfort for the family. Tom will be forever loved and missed. I love you all
Andrew Wright
July 22, 2024, 12:34 pm
I’m very saddened about his passing I’ll never forget the time I reached out to him video chatted with him on his birthday and finally meeting him in person at his family reunion last year at the Gold Head State Park in Keystone Heights he was a very nice and chill guy God Bless Him ! Sincerely his 3rd cousin Andrew Wright !
Hal Waite
July 22, 2024, 12:34 pm
Valerie and myself wish to express our sincere condolences to “Tom’s” family. I’ve known him since high school. Though we haven’t stayed in touch, I always considered him a friend, and look forward to seeing him again in the sweet by and by. Love and prayers to all.
Judy Rucker
July 22, 2024, 12:47 pm
Patty David and I are heartbroken to hear about Tom we have so many good memories with you both, We would love to be at the celebration of life for Tom but David’s nephew passed on the 17th and his celebration of life is the same day here in Tampa we are so so sorry, You and your family are in our prayers.
DAVID KILBY
July 22, 2024, 2:06 pm
Hello and my condolences to the Carr family. Hurts my heart to hear that Tom passed. At this time, I plan to attend the service on the 3rd.
Joy Grant
July 22, 2024, 3:52 pm
Prayers for you Dana and family . I know all to well how this emptiness feels . God speed 🙏🙏❤️🙏
Barbara Weatherford
July 22, 2024, 4:29 pm
So very sorry for your loss…
Crystal Edden
July 22, 2024, 4:47 pm
Dear Carr family, We are so sorry to hear of the Loss of Tom. May you reflect upon the great memories and things you learned from him. We pray God will grant you His peace and comfort. Although we may have met him, He sounds like someone we would like to have known. God bless you all! Don and Christy Edden griefshare.org
Scott Rowland
July 22, 2024, 5:43 pm
So sad to hear about your Dad. Carolyn and I are here for you. May your days be filled with peace. Love you Carolyn and Scott
Vickie Johnson
July 22, 2024, 9:11 pm
Sending prayers and love to the entire family for your loss🙏❤️.
Lorna Payumo
July 23, 2024, 12:00 pm
To Dana and Family – Our hearts go out to you and your family during this difficult time.
Andrew and Rachel Wire
July 23, 2024, 1:38 pm
My heart hurts so badly for you and your family Dana. Please know everyone here at Zabatt are here for you, whatever you may need. I pray for peace and understanding for you and all your family.
Chip Osteen
September 1, 2024, 9:58 am
Tom was life long friend from working at the sawmill. He cared most about his family and friends above all. I still have the Sago palms he gave me from over 20 years ago. My prayers go out to Patty and family. Tom will be missed.
James Chadwick
September 1, 2024, 3:20 pm
Tom was and still is a father most kids would of love to have as a father growing up I remember a time when i was very young I was in love with his daughter I mean in love with her I never went on a date with any body so beautiful dana was and he new it some how how much i was in love with her so here I am sitting on the couch just a little bit from him so when I ask him to take Dana out on a date I’ll have a chance to run so it took me some time to ask him when i did he look at me with those eyes I piss my pants I was so scared but I love dana and i couldn’t let her down no matter what Tom stare at me and told me to look over by the stove on the floor there’s was a quarter to pick it up I said yes sir then he told me to look at it and said there’s no reason to have my daughter back home not one minute pass 10 I said yes sir ty Mr Tom ty you so much I will make she will be back home as I was leaving he said you no what the was for o said no Sir you have no reason not to call him I said yes sir I was so happy the happyes I ever been in my life and he just knew I love his daughter Dana doesn’t know I piss my pants that night Tom o never got to tell you ty so much for being the father of Jacob my son I so sorry Tom not stipping up to the plate rest in peace. James Mason Chadwick